1. Family = free help and support. From providing free babysitting to helping out when your kids have different class events at the same time, having family nearby means you’re not dependent on friends or paid babysitters for an extra hand with your kids…and that goes for when you’re sick, too.
2. It’s easy to uphold family traditions. You know the traditions you loved as a child and want to pass on to your own children? That’s a lot easier to do when your own family is nearby.
3. You don’t have to spend holidays alone. If you decide not to travel to see family on Thanksgiving and Christmas, holidays can be pretty lonely. Even though holidays with family can be stressful, it’s better than feeling like you’re the only family in town who doesn’t have a place to go.
4. You don’t have to use up vacation time visiting family. Without family in town, there’s pressure to travel to see family every chance you get. But there’s also a big world out there of places to see — and places your family won’t be thrilled you chose to see over visiting them.
5. Your kids get to build deep connections with their relatives. My kids love when my family comes to town, but those visits are only a few times a year and there’s only so much bonding that can happen. With family nearby your kids get the added bonus of forming those deeper relationships.
So if your mom is your neighbor and she drives you a little crazy, just remember how lucky you and your kids are to have her nearby. She’s not just a free baby sitter, she’s one more person who loves your kids as much as you do. Everybody wins!
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